what you see is what you get

"A person who’s been rejected, before facing up to the reality, goes through five stages of grief. The first one is anger. The second one is denying reality. The third stage is bargaining. The fourth stage is depression. Finally, the stage of acceptance comes. Going through the agony of loss, in order to cure the pain, a person goes through these stages of grief. However, women and men are very different in this stage. Women try to make a better self, or try to meet a better man. So they focus on self-development. On the other hand, for men…They show signs of self-destruction, or due to the unbearable feelings of loss, they are much more distressed than women."

- Do Min Joon (You Who Came From the Stars)

This~ Do Min Joon!!!